So my baby sis’ died in 2002…... The buildup to my wedding was the first time I really missed her in many years. When she died something in me died and to be honest I didn’t even realize it up until recently. Growing up I was a music person; my …
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I have noticed that I can’t blog often because sometimes I’m afraid to put out what I actually have written down. So I have a huge pile of material in my unpublished file. I would love to brag and say I don’t care what anybody thinks and I don’t care …
Sex Education: Don’t get Pregnant or else…… As a young Nigerian girl, that was a constant threat in the back of your mind. It didn’t matter whether or not you were old enough or knew what it took to get pregnant heck, you didn’t even have to know what sex …
“I am” The phrase “I am” has become recognized as a very powerful prefix to the unfolding nature of a persons existence. In this era of information we have become very aware of the power of declaration and so it is not unusual to hear people say things like “speak …
She sat on the edge of the toilet shaking her right leg tensely in a continuous rhythm. She could hear through her bathroom window in the background, the steady hum of the generator outside and in the distance the screams of the neighbours kids on their way to school but …
Most properly brought up people (not everyone just most) are wired to be Loyal. From childhood you are conditioned to stick by your siblings or cousins (your first friends) even when you fight each other, you parents make you apologise to each other, hug and make up and eat together….. …
I have been unable to blog for a few weeks. I have written countless articles/blogs but I have been unable to publish them because they do not pull my heart strings. Now looking and at my blogs and write ups, they are not necessarily deep or as soul searching as …
Are we capable of committing murder? Under the right amount of pressure would you actually think of killing another human being? I have been tested in this regard and whether or not I passed is left to the reader to decide. I had these two guys as neighbours when I was in university …
There comes a time in everybody’s life where you have to grow up and I had been dying to grow up for a long time. My older sisters where already in boarding school and the stories made it sound super interesting plus, I could not wait to have provision and …
Dear Ladyromford, Right now you do not feel very confident or sure of yourself. I know right now your looks make you feel like you do not measure up. I know that you are not really bothered about being not one of the “popular” girls in school but you are …