Dear Newly Wed
Life
I made this post in 5 minutes because somebody pissed me off. So read it with that in mind, I was angry and sarcastic Dear sister/brother, Please do not be calling your husband or wife by name oh…. ahahn that’s a very bad something oh! you have to call him …
Inlaws & Eyeservice; To Do or Not to Do.
Life
We live in the era of renewed women empowerment and as is expected with movements of this kind it trickles down into our everyday life. Women have been encouraged to be unapologetic for being female at work at church everywhere and I am here for it. I am a huge …
My Recent Discoveries
Life
What I love about blogging is the fact that I do it at my own time. In recent times between battling my health {physical. mental and spiritual}and work and life in general I have come to the realisation of  few new things. Family is Everything…… Good and Bad. I think …
Diana vs Camilla: Affair or True love
Life
Long post alert!!!!!! be warned  Diana Princess of Wales The 20 year anniversary of princess Diana’s death came on early in the month of September 2017. I think it was the 4th day of the month not so sure …..anyway there was was quite a build up to the anniversary of her death and everything about her …
I Am
Life
“I am” The phrase “I am”  has become recognized as a very powerful prefix to the unfolding nature of a persons existence. In this era of information we have become very aware of the power of declaration and so it is not unusual to hear people say things like “speak …
Self Love can be Hard
Life
I was confused and struggling. I had gone from a wide-eyed curvy,sexy bride to a really chubby wife that hated herself. I was sad and it affected the love I gave out, even praying to God was a constant mind battle. I have added at least 20 kg since getting …
Behold The Side Chick
Life
Be prepared, this vlog is long. I have said this before and I would like to repeat the fact that I think I have had a conservative dating life, but then again things like your dating life and whether or not they can be considered conservative are very subjective. What I …
Tears and Doctors (II)
Marriage
Heart pounding, toe bleeding, eyes spitting fire, tears flowing, hurt cascading up and down my soul emanating from the injured toe to my brain, I turned to behold the love of my life who at that moment I could have sworn was Hitler’s incarnate. And I said in very calm …
Tears and Doctors
Marriage
“ARRGGHH!!!” (If only my scream was this Janded!!) I screamed/cried at the top of my lungs. I had gone straight to the ugly cry no branching; imagine with me, the most blood curling, pain full, painful scream you have ever heard, that must’ve been what Mr. Man heard as he …
MEN ARE FROM MARS
Marriage
The first night, I couldn’t sleep the tears wouldn’t stop pouring and the sad part is that Mr. Man was sound asleep right beside me and my ego meant It was important that he didn’t hear me cry. Me sleeping in the next room would add a brand new dynamic …