Frienship Struggles
Friendship
Having friends has never been my strength. As a young girl I prayed many prayers I really wanted to be a “people magnet” but alas I am far from that.  To make matters worse for me, my mom and all my sisters are effortlessly people magnets. Jeez! It wasn’t easy …
Tired!!!
Life
I have noticed that I can’t blog often because sometimes I’m afraid to put out what I actually have written down. So I have a huge pile of material in my unpublished file. I would love to brag and say I don’t care what anybody thinks and I don’t care …
Trying to Conceive and Pregnancy Envy
Life
Sex Education: Don’t get Pregnant or else…… As a young Nigerian girl, that was a constant threat in the back of your mind. It didn’t matter whether or not you were old enough or knew what it took to get pregnant heck, you didn’t even have to know what sex …
My Recent Discoveries
Life
What I love about blogging is the fact that I do it at my own time. In recent times between battling my health {physical. mental and spiritual}and work and life in general I have come to the realisation of  few new things. Family is Everything…… Good and Bad. I think …
Diana vs Camilla: Affair or True love
Life
Long post alert!!!!!! be warned  Diana Princess of Wales The 20 year anniversary of princess Diana’s death came on early in the month of September 2017. I think it was the 4th day of the month not so sure …..anyway there was was quite a build up to the anniversary of her death and everything about her …
I Am
Life
“I am” The phrase “I am”  has become recognized as a very powerful prefix to the unfolding nature of a persons existence. In this era of information we have become very aware of the power of declaration and so it is not unusual to hear people say things like “speak …
The Week from Heaven
Life
She sat on the edge of the toilet shaking her right leg tensely in a continuous rhythm. She could hear through her bathroom window in the background, the steady hum of the generator outside and in the distance the screams of the neighbours kids on their way to school but …
Change Your Friends: Its allowed.
Friendship
Most properly brought up people (not everyone just most) are wired to be Loyal. From childhood you are conditioned to stick by your siblings or cousins (your first friends) even when you fight each other, you parents make you apologise to each other,  hug and make up and eat together….. …
Silent Heart Strings
Life
I have been unable to blog for a few weeks. I have written countless articles/blogs but I have been unable to publish them because they do not pull my heart strings. Now looking and at my blogs and write ups, they are not necessarily deep or as soul searching as …
Murder Plans
Life
Are we capable of committing murder? Under the right amount of pressure would you actually think of killing another human being? I have been tested in this regard and whether or not I passed is left to the reader to decide. I had these two guys as neighbours when I was in university …