Ten Times I was the Toxic Friend
Friendship
Hello, How you doing? Just thought I should ask. So, a few days ago I was reading an article on xonecole.com “ten signs you’ve got a close toxic friend” and from the title you can see what it was addressing . As expected I proceeded to read the article and …
Letting go sucks………
Friendship
Ori’s christian mind: “Ori let go of past hurts ” Eye roll… This is my mind trying to practice what was preached in church on Sunday. However Ori’s carnal mind : “Abeg! leave me first”. I love the power that comes with holding on to a grudge especially if I …
Tired!!!
Life
I have noticed that I can’t blog often because sometimes I’m afraid to put out what I actually have written down. So I have a huge pile of material in my unpublished file. I would love to brag and say I don’t care what anybody thinks and I don’t care …
Dear Newly Wed
Life
I made this post in 5 minutes because somebody pissed me off. So read it with that in mind, I was angry and sarcastic Dear sister/brother, Please do not be calling your husband or wife by name oh…. ahahn that’s a very bad something oh! you have to call him …
Were You Raised Right or Do you Assume You Were?
Life
“My mother is the best cook in the world. Her….'{insert choice dish}’…. is the best in the Nigeria”. Almost everyone I have ever met, has that stoic belief that their Mom/Dad is best at one thing or the other, which I think is fabulous. I mean, Nigerians love to hate …
Inlaws & Eyeservice; To Do or Not to Do.
Life
We live in the era of renewed women empowerment and as is expected with movements of this kind it trickles down into our everyday life. Women have been encouraged to be unapologetic for being female at work at church everywhere and I am here for it. I am a huge …
Trying to Conceive and Pregnancy Envy
Life
Sex Education: Don’t get Pregnant or else…… As a young Nigerian girl, that was a constant threat in the back of your mind. It didn’t matter whether or not you were old enough or knew what it took to get pregnant heck, you didn’t even have to know what sex …
My Recent Discoveries
Life
What I love about blogging is the fact that I do it at my own time. In recent times between battling my health {physical. mental and spiritual}and work and life in general I have come to the realisation of  few new things. Family is Everything…… Good and Bad. I think …