Blood, Tears and Nail polish
Life
It’s twenty years today 13th may 2022. I have not given myself permission to have these memories in over a decade, heck over 15 years.  The last time I allowed my mind travel I was on a road trip to Lagos to shop for my wedding, that was May 2016.  …
Culture Shock
Life
The first time I experienced culture shock , I was 8 years old and yes my memory is fantastic .  I had travelled home to Otukpo for Christmas with my family. Now if you’re Nigerian you know what this means. For those who know not, a lot of us live …
My Maid of Honour
Marriage
In my previous blog I was simply going to blog about planning a wedding but somehow ended up blogging about my grieving process you can read it here. Choosing a chief brides maid (maid of honour) was one of the most stressful parts of my wedding.  I had always known …
Music and Me
Life
So my baby sis’ died in 2002…... The buildup to my wedding was the first time I really missed her in many years. When she died something in me died and to be honest I didn’t even realize it up until recently. Growing up I was a music person; my …
Queen Victoria: The Grandmother of England
Memoirs
So, my obsession with Royal families’ continue…… I love this stuff and have read about it or them since I was a teenager. I want to say so much but  its hard to write about  stuff dating back to 1764 without boring you to death. That being said, I am …
Diana vs Camilla: Affair or True love
Life
Long post alert!!!!!! be warned  Diana Princess of Wales The 20 year anniversary of princess Diana’s death came on early in the month of September 2017. I think it was the 4th day of the month not so sure …..anyway there was was quite a build up to the anniversary of her death and everything about her …
50 Random things about Me
Life
I thought it would be nice if my reader(s) got to know random stuff about me. I struggled with what to share and what not to share but after a while decided to just wing it. Maybe I will do another again later in my blogosphere, but for now here …
Behold The Side Chick
Life
Be prepared, this vlog is long. I have said this before and I would like to repeat the fact that I think I have had a conservative dating life, but then again things like your dating life and whether or not they can be considered conservative are very subjective. What I …
My First Date Ever….
Life
I never considered myself a serial dater. I have always considered myself a conservative dater. I didn’t date in secondary school first because I felt a lot of my school boys were childish, but most importantly  because very early in my secondary school days I had decided I was going …