Culture Shock
Life
The first time I experienced culture shock , I was 8 years old and yes my memory is fantastic .  I had travelled home to Otukpo for Christmas with my family. Now if you’re Nigerian you know what this means. For those who know not, a lot of us live …
My Maid of Honour
Marriage
In my previous blog I was simply going to blog about planning a wedding but somehow ended up blogging about my grieving process you can read it here. Choosing a chief brides maid (maid of honour) was one of the most stressful parts of my wedding.  I had always known …
Music and Me
Life
So my baby sis’ died in 2002…... The buildup to my wedding was the first time I really missed her in many years. When she died something in me died and to be honest I didn’t even realize it up until recently. Growing up I was a music person; my …