It’s twenty years today 13th may 2022. I have not given myself permission to have these memories in over a decade, heck over 15 years. The last time I allowed my mind travel I was on a road trip to Lagos to shop for my wedding, that was May 2016. …
Tag: family
My relationship with the rainbow is a long and friendly one. As a child I was simply gobsmacked that all those colours could just be in the sky randomly( at least thats what my childlike mind thought). I was always really happy to see the rainbow colours in bubbles too …
The first time I experienced culture shock , I was 8 years old and yes my memory is fantastic . I had travelled home to Otukpo for Christmas with my family. Now if you’re Nigerian you know what this means. For those who know not, a lot of us live …
This particular story is not super interesting but in the spirit of telling a story I will tell it…. So like I have shared I am now a mother to one absolutely fabulous baby but if you ever read my blog “pregnancy envy” then you will know that the journey …
It’s 2:am here and I just signed into my blog for the first time in a while and I just realized, it’s been two years since my last actual blog post or technically 25 months depending on how you count. I’ve had one post last year but to be honest …
I made this post in 5 minutes because somebody pissed me off. So read it with that in mind, I was angry and sarcastic Dear sister/brother, Please do not be calling your husband or wife by name oh…. ahahn that’s a very bad something oh! you have to call him …
“My mother is the best cook in the world. Her….'{insert choice dish}’…. is the best in the Nigeria”. Almost everyone I have ever met, has that stoic belief that their Mom/Dad is best at one thing or the other, which I think is fabulous. I mean, Nigerians love to hate …
We live in the era of renewed women empowerment and as is expected with movements of this kind it trickles down into our everyday life. Women have been encouraged to be unapologetic for being female at work at church everywhere and I am here for it. I am a huge …
Sex Education: Don’t get Pregnant or else…… As a young Nigerian girl, that was a constant threat in the back of your mind. It didn’t matter whether or not you were old enough or knew what it took to get pregnant heck, you didn’t even have to know what sex …
What I love about blogging is the fact that I do it at my own time. In recent times between battling my health {physical. mental and spiritual}and work and life in general I have come to the realisation of few new things. Family is Everything…… Good and Bad. I think …