Dear Newly Wed
Life
I made this post in 5 minutes because somebody pissed me off. So read it with that in mind, I was angry and sarcastic Dear sister/brother, Please do not be calling your husband or wife by name oh…. ahahn that’s a very bad something oh! you have to call him …
Inlaws & Eyeservice; To Do or Not to Do.
Life
We live in the era of renewed women empowerment and as is expected with movements of this kind it trickles down into our everyday life. Women have been encouraged to be unapologetic for being female at work at church everywhere and I am here for it. I am a huge …
Trying to Conceive and Pregnancy Envy
Life
Sex Education: Don’t get Pregnant or else…… As a young Nigerian girl, that was a constant threat in the back of your mind. It didn’t matter whether or not you were old enough or knew what it took to get pregnant heck, you didn’t even have to know what sex …
Diana vs Camilla: Affair or True love
Life
Long post alert!!!!!! be warned  Diana Princess of Wales The 20 year anniversary of princess Diana’s death came on early in the month of September 2017. I think it was the 4th day of the month not so sure …..anyway there was was quite a build up to the anniversary of her death and everything about her …
Marriage….what I discovered after
Life
I have struggled with what to share and what not to share. Obviously I will not share everything because first of all I am still learning and so there are aspects of this marriage thing I am still figuring out. What I will share about learning marriage is about 90% …
Self Love can be Hard
Life
I was confused and struggling. I had gone from a wide-eyed curvy,sexy bride to a really chubby wife that hated herself. I was sad and it affected the love I gave out, even praying to God was a constant mind battle. I have added at least 20 kg since getting …
My Green-eyed Monster
Marriage
I had never been so deeply jealous in my entire life. Ok, maybe once before I was jealous of one girl in school. She seemed so put together, her outfits were always cute she had or has lovely hair, no acne, handsome hand-on boyfriend. She was one of those girls …
Tears and Doctors (II)
Marriage
Heart pounding, toe bleeding, eyes spitting fire, tears flowing, hurt cascading up and down my soul emanating from the injured toe to my brain, I turned to behold the love of my life who at that moment I could have sworn was Hitler’s incarnate. And I said in very calm …
Tears and Doctors
Marriage
“ARRGGHH!!!” (If only my scream was this Janded!!) I screamed/cried at the top of my lungs. I had gone straight to the ugly cry no branching; imagine with me, the most blood curling, pain full, painful scream you have ever heard, that must’ve been what Mr. Man heard as he …