My Rainbow Covenant
Life
My relationship with the rainbow is a long and friendly one. As a child I was simply gobsmacked that all those colours could just be in the sky randomly( at least thats what my childlike mind thought). I was always really happy to see the rainbow colours in bubbles too …
Culture Shock
Life
The first time I experienced culture shock , I was 8 years old and yes my memory is fantastic .  I had travelled home to Otukpo for Christmas with my family. Now if you’re Nigerian you know what this means. For those who know not, a lot of us live …
Music and Me
Life
So my baby sis’ died in 2002…... The buildup to my wedding was the first time I really missed her in many years. When she died something in me died and to be honest I didn’t even realize it up until recently. Growing up I was a music person; my …
Life has Happened…
Life
It’s 2:am here and I just signed into my blog for the first time in a while and I just realized, it’s been two years since my last actual blog post or technically 25 months depending on how you count. I’ve had one post last year but to be honest …
Ten Times I was the Toxic Friend
Friendship
Hello, How you doing? Just thought I should ask. So, a few days ago I was reading an article on xonecole.com “ten signs you’ve got a close toxic friend” and from the title you can see what it was addressing . As expected I proceeded to read the article and …
Letting go sucks………
Friendship
Ori’s christian mind: “Ori let go of past hurts ” Eye roll… This is my mind trying to practice what was preached in church on Sunday. However Ori’s carnal mind : “Abeg! leave me first”. I love the power that comes with holding on to a grudge especially if I …
Tired!!!
Life
I have noticed that I can’t blog often because sometimes I’m afraid to put out what I actually have written down. So I have a huge pile of material in my unpublished file. I would love to brag and say I don’t care what anybody thinks and I don’t care …
Dear Newly Wed
Life
I made this post in 5 minutes because somebody pissed me off. So read it with that in mind, I was angry and sarcastic Dear sister/brother, Please do not be calling your husband or wife by name oh…. ahahn that’s a very bad something oh! you have to call him …
Were You Raised Right or Do you Assume You Were?
Life
“My mother is the best cook in the world. Her….'{insert choice dish}’…. is the best in the Nigeria”. Almost everyone I have ever met, has that stoic belief that their Mom/Dad is best at one thing or the other, which I think is fabulous. I mean, Nigerians love to hate …
Inlaws & Eyeservice; To Do or Not to Do.
Life
We live in the era of renewed women empowerment and as is expected with movements of this kind it trickles down into our everyday life. Women have been encouraged to be unapologetic for being female at work at church everywhere and I am here for it. I am a huge …